Have you ever regretted that you wish have fulfilled??? Please think before answering…
For me it has been a problem always…Isnt it stupid…you wish & then you regret….
For example–I wished that I get a better job…But when I got the new job I realized its not good…Certain dimensions were missing which I did not think initially..My profile was good but the team I got was a pain in the head. Money was good but visibility was low.
There are numerous examples like this.
Careful analysis says that problem is always with the incomplete nature wish rather than fulfillment of wish.
Humans tend to wish without defining the proper boundaries & scope of their wish. We tend to wish “what I dont want ” rather that ” what i want”… We tend to run away from problems & hence we wish for things where in we dont have to face those problems.
So, a lot of analysis needs to go in while we prepare ourselves for making a wish. We need to make a proper analysis of our problems/issues/tensions & then only we can decide what we want. This helps in defining our goal & end objective with lot of clarity. When we are clear in our mind, we tend to focus & all this universe helps us in attaining our desires.
Hope this helps!!!!!!!!
August 16, 2009 at 7:56 am
Nice post!
I think they also say, when you make a goal to say “Or something better”. You never know, when you make the goal, what will happen later on, so you need to be prepared!